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Wednesday, January 25

20 clever trick of psychology can be used in your daily life to gain control of your relationships with others


1. ladies wore red:

According to a study has research at the University of Rochester in New York, men tend to spend more money with the women if they went out together, wearing the color red.

2. Go to the Director solutions instead of problems:

Come all staff problems and few are bringing solutions. Try to submit to the Director by the problems and instead will be paid any attention well and also rewards you.

3. Try silence:


If someone answer your question a bad cold, try to shut up and look directly into his eyes while speaking'll feel difficulty in continuing to speak and silenced.
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4. Make people think she loves:

You can use the effect of "Ben Franklin" phenomenon, which states (that the person who did you known to be more willing to do Last Known you more than the person who you Osudaith known.) So when unknown ask someone and do you, will think that he loves because he did this for you know the impact of this effect is Ben Franklin.

5. mention the names of the people too much:

Most of the most charming characters have a habit of using the name often during the conversation with you. So try to remember the name of the person who caused so much it will make them love you more.

6. learn to teach:

One of the best ways to learn and increase academic achievement are taught learning (Learning by teaching), a method used by a French professor named (Jean-Paul Martin) has proven very effective. All you have to do is deal with your friends or colleagues by dividing the courses or materials upon you and every one of you take care of part and begins to explain and teach it to others. Learning teaching makes you able than Tcherha, equip yourself to other people's questions and understand due largely to explain eligibility and simplified.


7. excitement contagious


If you feel nervous about something I have covered some of that feeling of excitement and enthusiasm, and once that feeling moves those around you will end up feeling of nervousness because of the positive responses of their reaction.

8. Touch force:

Touch is a very powerful tool for those who use it improves, gets waiter who mastered the art of non-touch more annoying than any other tip.
If you touch the person who caused touches lightly on the arm or thigh or knee will enhance your words and will make him feel comfortable towards you-without being strange and suspicious to Bataba- touches.

9. Be an active listener:

When you listen to somebody tried to ask clarifying questions and kept his eyes and continues to Display your attention by saying words or small expressions as "Really?" And "AHA" and others.

10. Learn to pause:

Optimal rate to speak or give a speech the word is 3.5 in the second and should be stopped from 4 to 5 times a minute it will help to understand the recipient.

11. Make them feel that you made a settlement:

For example, if you want to $ 10 from someone ask to $ 50 and then when Ajobon rejected the request for $ 10 you'll feel bad for the rejection of the request and would find an opportunity to help and provide the $ 10 immediately.

12. Start Small:



This point is the reverse point number 11 instead of the requested something very likely never request anything can not reject him and ask after it is approved greater than demand something simple after a day or two rejected.

13. Wait until you feel tired:

When you want to make everybody agrees with everything expected refusing to wait while feel tired at this time because the man becomes less able to do mental activities Supreme counterbalance the negatives and positives to the decision it would be easy to approval.
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14. no less them they are wrong:

Rather than acknowledge explicitly that the person in front of you is wrong, never talk Balhi agreed with him (common ground) and then explain your point, which varies with the ..zlk will make him listen to you instead of you to feel alienated and rejected without listening to you.

15. Nodding:

Nodding his head is a universal sign means the agreement with the other person. When the gestures of a person is will also goes by making it agreed with you mentally, it will make you able to request known to him in a way easier and more acceptable.

16. Mirror

If you find yourself working with people-permanent anger, place a mirror on the wall behind you that will force them to see themselves in the mirror and begin to feel relaxed.

17. then focus on steps:

Instead of focusing on the target you want to access your focus on the steps that you want to use to reach the ultimate goal, and your mind will come amazing ideas to help you reach it.

18. Use of silence in dealing with anger:




When someone yells or loses his temper while talking to you, but not dealing likewise remain calm and look him in the eyes and they will calm down by 99% - then Btjrepettha-.

19. Use the emotions:

People do not remember you but you remember how they feel your presence during your speech, try to express sincere feelings towards them which will make them love you and feel comfortable to you.

20. In order to request seems a show:

During Teddy Roosevelt's nomination for the presidency in his campaign used three million Mnchoralehm photograph and a copy of his speech and after the electoral campaign period I realized they did not have the right to use that image Vhakogaha was owned by a photographer. Instead of explaining the situation to the photographer whose image, which has the right to demand a lot of money in exchange for use of the image of his reign, made him show they they will just continue using the image and give a very large Almsourchehrh if he agreed to pay $ 250 to the campaign .. and already pay the studio money for the campaign!

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